Try

I get really frustrated when people refuse to try. That's hurtful to others, it implies that you don't care enough. It impedes oneself, how will you ever grow or learn or live life to its fullest if you don't even try? Thrive in your efforts to better yourself.

I used to wave around my anxiety as something to gain attention and as an excuse. That was dumb. Now I can feel proud that I have overcome. I don't get worked up about as many little things as I used to and it leaves brilliant room to grow and serve God and be independent.

Don't act like fear impedes you from trying. You harming yourself and people who invest in you.